There are ways to score successfully and ways to strike out repeatedly. The key is to not be holed into one mindset all the time. Realize that the only way you’ll be way ahead of the game is if you take the good along with the bad. Here’s how to do it!
What holds guys back from getting the girl is fear of rejection. The fear alone will prevent them from doing anything.
And God forbid they do get rejected, 가상경마 as this will oftentimes set them back for months and they won’t dare try anything for some time. What you have to realize is that rejection won’t push you further back from successfully scoring, it will get you even closer to getting the girl.
There was a study done a few years back where they found that if a guy walked up to a girl in a bar and asked right away if she wanted to go back to his place or her place (for sex), he had a 1 in 10 chance of the girl saying..”yes”! That’s a 1 in 10 chance with just one straightforward line!
Now that proved to be a pretty shocking, and enlightening, discovery. Now if you can imagine engaging in a little small talk, getting to know you, flirting, etc, those chances will be even greater.
But the point is this: The guy who simply tries once and fails, then becomes bummed out from rejection, is not fully realizing that he’s only used up 1 of his 10 chances! He still has 9 more lives before success is close to guaranteed!
In the bigger picture, what this means is that attempting to get the girl should be a repeated process where eventually you will succeed.
The key is learning good pick-up routines, and then using them consistently. If they don’t work the first, second, or third time, do not give up! That just means success with getting the girl is right around the corner, and that you are closer than ever to successfully scoring.